We all want a man who is not afraid to love, a man who will cherish your existence, one whose not ashamed to respect you and call you his queen, a man of his word, a man who takes responsibility, a man who would never promise you the world but would go to extremes to make you as happy as he thinks you should be for as long as he is still in your life, a man who respects and understands the importance and existence of your past and wants your future to be better than that. This kind of man is the type that thanks GOD for his blessings; he thinks that in every bad or hurt woman there is an angel waiting to be loved and adored. This man only promises one thing “to be a better man tomorrow than I am today”…
If you have had this type of man in your life then best believe that you have experienced what God had initially intended MAN to be when he created Adam. This is a man that holds dearly to his heart what his beloved woman cares about. A man like this does exist in all corners of the world, believe or not, that guy that you would much rather stay “BEST FRIENDS” with, could be this type of man, which is just why he is your best friend. Because you see all his values and beliefs, you think that that you are not worthy to be with such a man, when truth is, we are all Gods children and he teaches us all to love and be loved.
I can tell from experience that a good man is hard to accept when you have been with all the jerks in this world before. There comes a time when you question yourself, wonder if it’s real or not? Will it last? Then you tell yourself that you are not going to give your heart once more to a man who is only pretending to love you. But truth is that real love is not something that you can switch on and off. A “PLAYER” switches on and off, and you know this because he is not kind and sweet to you 100% of the time that you are with him and his not always willing and able. E.g. he only pours his heart out when it suits him i.e. when his done something wrong. When he wants sex… the rest you should be able to figure. A man who loves you truly will tell you that every moment of his life for as long as he is with you.
With that being said every good man deserves a great woman, a woman that will be his inspiration, a woman that will be his best friend, his fan, his lover, his advisor, his strength, his care taker, his purpose… a woman in love should respect her man but not be afraid and ashamed of him. Be proud of all that your man is capable of doing so that he is empowered and able to do more. It’s not all about the cooking and the cleaning, NO! It’s about being a woman, a real woman… who stands by her man no matter what. Be the type of woman that all men wish to have, the one that does not nag but rather suggests, the type that doesn’t let herself go after three years into the relationship or babies (keep it fresh for your man it keeps him on his toes)…
Next time you run into a guy or a woman who makes you feel like you could be something better than what you are at that present moment, just know that you have found a good one…good guys get hurt too so don’t go ruining things with your insecurities too, this goes to both male and female! Well that’s it for today, join me next time as I give you tips on “THE PERFECT FIRST DATE”
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True, sometimes good guy are hard to find, I’ve given up
Hun love is the hardest yet purest thing, even if you give up, when God intends for you to have it, it will find you. Just live your life one day at a time and dont go looking for love, let it catch you off guard. That’s the best kind of love